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If You Experience Any of These 15 Signs, You’re Just An Option, NOT A Priority
What It Feels Like When You're Always An Option And Never A Priority
Stay resolute in demanding better. The easiest thing to do with this kind of guy is accept the status quo, keep hanging out with him, and date him on his terms. You want to date him on terms that are agreeable to BOTH of you. Keep your options open. Possible… but not particularly likely. The best thing you can do right now is start looking for love elsewhere.
You think that one day, all of a sudden, this person will turn around and put you above everyone else, and it will somehow morph into a perfect relationship. Maybe you're already in a relationship with this person and keep hoping things will get better, even though you've never been the first thing on this person's mind. You probably don't ask for much, but they've made you feel like it's your fault for feeling the way you do. You're desperate for those few moments where this person makes you feel special, but then you feel terrible the rest of the time. Guess what? We've all been there, and some of us are still there, trying to figure out a way to get out. End things.
Relationships are hard. Being in a relationship changes us in many ways. We come to believe that adjustments and compromise are essential elements that sustain a long term relationship. Even though that is true, we tend to forget our worth eventually and stop noticing the changes that can prove to be fatal. Sometimes we lie to ourselves and live in denial rather than face the bitter truth.
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I have millions of readers. I live in the greatest city in the world with more beautiful women than you could count. Everything is going well, sort of. Everything, except the one thing that matters most to me -- this one girl. Nothing gives you energy or drains you of it the way love does. When things are going great, you feel full of life, vibrant, ready to take on the world. Everything feels like it takes an enormous effort to accomplish.